Reinvention……It Happens!!

As 2019, speeds to an end, I’ve caught myself reflecting and planning.   Not for New Year’s Resolutions, but just cleaning up some things.   If you’re a regular visitor to the Blog, if you scroll through past posts you will realize I’ve deleted several of the blog posts.    I’ve come to realize we are our own worse judges.   Many of the things I discussed in the posts were simply my inability to realize I’m not in control of anyone’s opinion, but my own.    Coming to that realization is very liberating!

Before, I realized I was going to delete blog posts, I cleaned up my Facebook account.   No, I did not delete people, honestly, I use it for business purposes and there are not  many posts from individuals flooding my page.   But, I had several who never posted ANYTHING positive and after reading helpful tips for being better in 2020 I unfollowed them.   We’re still friends, but I won’t be subject to the negativity they share so freely.   It’s fine if they are happy choosing to view their lives in such a manner, but it’s okay if I don’t want to.

I’ve always tried to live life and view the world around me positively and I think I gain much more from each day just doing so.   Chances are if you run into me, I’m going to offer a smile before I speak and if you’re in hearing distance I will greet you.   It’s just me and I like it.   It warms my spirit and makes the day brighter.   Now, don’t believe I’m like this 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.  I have my moments and my only defense is I try to recover quickly, realizing life is way too short to spend much time in negativity land.  And, if you think about it, you will never win an argument or discussion with a negative person.   They are not listening to you to learn or comprehend, they’re only waiting to reply and it’s going to be negative.   So join me, let’s not go there and if you find yourself there, quickly escape.

I knew I had not posted in a while, but did not realize my last post was May 31st.   Hopefully, this will change.  I hope to post at least once a week.   In the beginning of the blog, I was trying to escape, explain, deny, justify or whatever you wish to call it, but having accepted I’m not the master of no one but myself, I’m over it.   I want………

Let’s just say I have some plans up in the air and I have some very positive thoughts and suggestions from some others, as well as my own ideas.   Just stay tuned and let’s ride together.   If I find myself on the negative path; I promise I’ll depart quickly!  After all, why should you be subject to the negativity?

Happy New Year and remember, if you need to reinvent certain aspects or areas of your life.   Dive in….it happens.

SGHR